We used to be ...
The old woman, quietly left the room. The sound of the hall with the grandson of the bride:
"My son, table ready, I put the soup; ate from cooling also come on! .. "
Replaced by Hall's nook, where we sat on cushions brought from the village of its own. The child saw the grandmother:
"-Babaannecig, Come eat together! .." He said.
After the old woman sighed mânidâ way:
"Uninhabitable -Home men coming to the dinner table. Especially your father come, we eat together, insha'Allah! "He said.
The bride's house:
"-Oh Mother, she used to them! .. Now sit on the dinner table hungry, it comes to place." He said. Old woman:
"A girl, how people of a literary, Hayashi, if modesty, chastity and is also home of the literary."
Grandson can not stand by interjected sarcastically:
"-Or Grandmother, chastity of these homes ... Tell me, what is it, I wonder! .." He said.
The old woman began to talk:
"We learned -We decent living for young mothers across our before our fathers. Our home dad, mom does not fit our feet when we reach out, we said we would not be great unless the right to incorporate the talking. Our quick recovery is the major entered the room, we give space for them to sit up. We could extend our hand to the table than the father can never sit at the table.
Our Father comes, "Bismillah» pull «commanded Come." He says. Finally, the peace we all start eating our brothers and sisters ... we read Duas the table with us as well. Have you ever eaten a family meal to be delicious? This is the literary table, baby! .. "
"Did not I get depressed in the face of pressure babaannecig -This up!" He said.
"No, love is respect for our time that my child had remained outstanding. Love would never have entered into quite depressed. The meals were delicious, was very relaxing sleep. Do you know? I am here for the first time I heard the word depression, and even had someone deprived of one mind in our village, "Crazy ibram» was compiled. God, he was so happy that even I can not tell. Evening up the street to play with the children, the click of a door is open; «I'm hungry Abe, gave the EU the water!" He says. Which door would ring hollow would not turn. The longer the hair, the barber shaves, wash hamamci together. Friday trades amount in hand, even if they took prayer. So nobody could exclude him ..
Now there's a respect thing. Look no respect even for the house in this city! Everyone appeared to be in the evening curtain covering the whole inside of the house looks, but nobody embarrassed. We draw our thick curtain starting to get dark again, then we burn the house of light. Would even the decency to change our curtains closed over; extinguishes the light, so we changed our place to squat upon. We think of our angry face was even shadow can be seen from the outside. "
Meanwhile, bride, got up from his seat, pulled the curtains of the room with an embarrassed tone.
"-" Home of the literary, it is certain that the withdrawn before the curtain. "Our big trouble ...
Houses, which he was in the courtyard surrounded by huge walls nobody could hang mid grand underwear, they would have the decency to even the home folks. I'm wearing baggy younger than I hang on the front rope, my mother came immediately; «My daughter, my father went out today's courtyard, the hanging your baggy pants, I entered the bottom of the earth shame. Again it appeared hanging, hang the rope on the back of the washing .. cover on top for a long cheesecloth, then latches ... you look what is under! .. Our chastity, when literary have a go, not our clear belief .. "he said. Of course, I've been in 12 years, and my mother telling me that I entered them into the bottom of the earth. Oh, so now? I take one last breath he went to the balcony, neighbors, all the laundry was as gratuitous, I walked right out of shame.
Today, meals are eaten outside, "right eye» is going on, nobody cares. Who comes home from the bazaar in transparent plastic bag; There are areas can not get there. The right eye, jealousy going on in those defeats ... Is this my child would ever heal? Our Prophet sallallahu alayhi blessings, "Do not torment your neighbor with the smell of your meal.» He asks. Today, with the smell, always call to prayer is given to those flaunted around. It gives renewed shortage within you, of course. Then «depression» the doctor said he come here.
There are more than a literary house that this is probably the most important one ... what happened in the house, never outside unutterable; who beat, drunk who, muhabbetleş studies, fights ... This is considered the home of chastity and no one was indescribable. So the problems were solved easily through the house. Already spread around what the Prophet, especially those between husband and wife is a great sin always tells the tradition, did not leylacım! .. "Said the bride ... Leyla embarrassed manner:
"Yes, Mama." Could say.
"-Babaannecig I now have something called Facebook; take a picture of seven things people are demonstrating in the restaurants they go to thousands of people! .. "
"What a shame ... Is -Aayy says that no man eat?"
"Oh, Mommy, they have photographs of each case. The place where they toured, ate their food and drinks, take their belongings and clothes, and even share with notes written on flowers taken by the people, gentlemen ... "
"I -Yavruu, you say what? Doomsday will break the pattern broke ... Houses pattern stayed naked ... "He continued to explain in tears, said:
"We learn to walk side by side with our -We R guys. Now a fight in the middle, not like in the middle ... Of course, no privacy disappeared, as well as intimacy does not remain. The blessings of the house is great respect. The chastity of the house is covered with curtains. Chastity is love, is privacy. Modesty of the eyes, the eyelids. The chastity of the body, the veil. Do not be shy, Haya, is a belief from Feb. Look you, I'll tell a story that my mother told me. AMSA said the story, the name of the story ... In fact, a Hadith-i-Hadith sacred meaning of God's prophet as well ... So let the Lord, if the words of the hadith that the Prophet said in his own words ...
"Allah, creating the time of Prophet Adam Gabriel Prophet brought him three gifts: Science, Haya, mind. He said to him: "What Adam! .. Choose the language of them! ..»
Prophet Adam chose to mind. Jibril PBUH testicles, and the province was ordered to return to their authority. Haya and knowledge say:
"-We World-i ervâh (soul in the world) I've always together. We never separated from each other. After entering the body souls are the same way. And no matter where in mind, we have needed him.
Jibril PBUH it is settled in your seats! .. "He minds being ordered mind, heart, knowledge, Haya also moved review."
Here, as explained in this sacred Hadith-i is eye Hayan authorities. Therefore, it is important to protect our eyes and keep things under control as well as eye appeal ... "
"-You're Right, Mama, we have increased our crisis robbed our chastity." He said.
Grandson spoon quietly left:
"As I began to eat my father -I, Mommy!" He said.
The impact on children of seeing what he said Grandma praise Allah in a quiet way.